Having the Hard Conversations in Relationships

I met a woman in the Costa Rican Thermal Hot Springs and my advise to her was having the hard conversations to update each other about changes in life, aging and the body and mind and old and replaced priorities and philosophy about life. 

We change from our 20s, 30s and 40s and onwards and you reach your 60s and you just say to yourself I want peace and harmony. We need to share how we are ever changing and transforming for harmony’s sake.

When we approach each other with harmony in mind then it resets to the now and understanding how easily we update our phones and computers and that we too are a unique and complex system of emotions, mind, body and Spirit that expands and contracts and let’s go and can reset and reinvent the harmony of sacred self with our sacred partner. We do have the power of choice and this is love. 

When you can go through the ugly with respect and acknowledging each others voice and needs to be heard, respected and honored no matter the ugly and raw or the beautiful and flow of the sacred. It’s knowing despite the flaws that we can calmly accept these in ourself and each other and lovingly move forward without defensiveness or being right but embracing it all in each other and choosing harmonic resolve in peaceful union and agreement. 

This is a way for quality and mutual growth, resolve and understanding with love. Loving wishes of mutual harmony and love updating our system and unified systems of relationships because we all need this and the focus on that will make us happy working on ourselves and our relationships together. Harmony hugs my Beloveds.