Blow Each Others Minds

Happy Spring Equinox my Lovelies. The beginning of rebirth and newness of the season inspires us to go forward. In some places rituals of celebration of birth in nature teaches us that life keeps us going forward. How we choose to move forward takes calm and clear alignment with Creatrix or Creator. 

This is the awakening and the new world is coming. All the shades and coverups are being dissolved and sure we realize that we gave our power over to tradition, culture, gender associations, roles, titles and documents to prove our worth. It’s like the Universe hands over the big question: “Are we who we thought we were?” “Seize the opportunity in suffering as a signal no longer to relinquish our identity by old belief systems implanted in us to forget who we really are and what we want in our lives and truly stop living the facade that all is well in the old archaic systems of our minds. Ask yourself:”Are we truly real? Are we living universally with truth and compassion?” Have the growth oriented conversations without shields or shame that we are flawed and reset and recenter. 

A good exercise in your belief system is write down what you believe is true about you and your life and along with many roles and relationships to yourself and others. If you are having problems with what you are indoctrinated to believe you are and instead of reflecting and breaking down your barriers to break these false images and systems in your head, in relationships to others and our world; I applaud your awakening.

You have to identify friction and suffering to be able to question if this applies to your evolvement or not? When you are ready for growth: you are ready to make alterations to yourself and no longer suffer. You have to update your thinking and others you relate to and allow the hard conversations to clear the debris and remove the rose colored glasses you put on in your life and get out of the shade that stunts you and your growth and see the light in all of us and move forward. 

I will give you an example. As a reverend we encounter all kinds of messages of light. Perfect time to discuss intimacy and ways to celebrate ourself and each other in a romantic relationship. We as a world; aren’t loving ourselves and acknowledging what our preferences are and they do change. Sometimes our archaic allegiance to the past with trauma can have us hold back who we are and what we want. 

Time to be intimate with yourself and be the director, creator and participant in our intimate life forward. Sex and sensuality are inspired by Spring. The God and Goddess in us calls for this creative force and awareness for pleasure, consent and exploration. A couple came to me quite frustrated and bored with their relationship in intimacy and wanted to divorce, separate etc. I asked the last time they communicated what they enjoyed and enjoyed with each other. Boredom and frustration comes from aligned misalignment that we are giving & receiving  pleasure and getting it one way that maybe outgrown. 

In a relationship to loving yourself; you get brave enough in a kind and playful way that I no longer enjoy this way but like to explore these other scenarios. I tell them that they need to act in their own sexual movie or play. Try role playing or touching with warm and gentleness with slow savoring moments of just unthreatening or pressure that it leads to sex but breathe and look into each others eyes and just savor this. This is a start to not playing the roles that become robotic but actually seeing each other without intercourse or feeling pressure or confusion by stating we are only seeing each other as sacred sensual beings. This is a good exercise. 

The next step taking it slow is to say what you love in a simple sentence about the other slowly and softly cradling each other and breathing. Appreciation is the key to seeing each other and savor this. 

Another time you simple and slowly touch not sexually but lovingly making friends and then no pressure and slowly ease into a kiss and hug. This makes you both comfortable about your five senses to be ignited to experience and appreciate each other and then if sex and intimacy occurs; take your time so your focus is there and your presence. Utilize play and exploration in new environments and props, costumes, settings and discuss the toys, the scene and role playing with costumes. Then you really will enjoy creating and cultivating a new journey. 

I have gone on many adventures and taken you all on one and intimacy, sexuality and sensuality are important to explore first what you like and truly love about yourself and explore the other person in your life and share that and they share their wish to explore and enjoy this journey together. We need an upgrade and we do this easily with our gadgets technologically but we need this done physically mostly mentally and share this with respect and engaging with communication. Free yourself and each other of assumed roles and expectations when you both are frustrated or bored. 

We are unlimited creative beings of passion and we create this new world when our own relationship to ourself and our partner or lover is clear, expressed and liberated from false assumptions and notions of limitation or reimposed elements of shame and shade I call it. Remove the shades in your life and see it, face it, linger and enjoy it, 

Happy Crescendos of Love and make some real noise. Happy Spring.